The Best Way to Honor St. Valentine
February 14th—Valentine’s Day—is most often associated with love, flowers, cards and of course, those delicious heart-shaped-message candies. While we all love to indulge in the love spread around on...
View ArticleA Birth Mom's Journey
You would think that I would have something more to report on the DNA kit. Some things just take more time than we would like. The first kit would not activate; the second kit did activate but it took...
View ArticleHow Social Work Saved Me
I am lucky enough to be writing this blog during National Social Worker Month – a month when we honor the time, love, commitment, and overwhelming kindness that anyone who knows a social worker is...
View ArticleThe Chaos in My Head Also Known As The Matching Process
OK- I admit the title here is a wee bit dramatic- but to be honest my life has been a wee bit chaotic the last few months and I think it’s a good fit for how I am feeling- plus it probably grabbed your...
View ArticleA Birth Mother's Heart
My name is Chrysteenya, and I’m a birth mother, but I’m not your typical. My journey started on a path where I thought I could trust a man; a man who swore we had everything going for us. You see at 34...
View ArticleA Letter From Our Heart To Yours
A Letter to a Birth Mom from Your Adoption CaseworkerDear Brave Birth Mom, I just wanted to let you know how proud I am of you and the woman you are. I know what you are going through is so...
View ArticleA Few Things to Keep In Mind This Tax Weekend
It’s coming. We all feel it. Once the year changes, you feel like you have a world of time, and then before you know it, it’s April 15th, Tax Day.One important thing to remember this ominous weekend...
View ArticleA Day of Encouragement in the Park
Our annual Adoptive Family Picnic was a lovely day at the park. This is a time when families in every stage of the adoption process can come out and spend time with each other. They can talk and share...
View ArticleGrowing On: A Birth Mom Story
I’d like to think of this as moving on but really, it’s growing on.There was a point in time where I was so consumed with anxiety that I honestly had to pep talk myself to leave my house. Let alone...
View ArticleThe Yucky Side- from a Birth Mother's Perspective
Just so most know, I did keep my pregnancy a secret and didn't brag or talk much about it. Only because I knew I was placing baby girl. But there comes a point where people start to put one and one...
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